“If I leave, sorry for you” — Lady says men can’t find someone like her


A woman sparked tremendous outrage online after claiming that women like her are uncommon and should be highly appreciated in relationships.

In a viral message on social media, the lady underlined her individuality, advising spouses not to take such attributes for granted.

Her statements have now elicited conflicting reactions, with some users complimenting her confidence and others criticising the statement as extremely self-centred.

The talk mirrors continuing discussions among young Nigerians about self-esteem, dating norms, and relationship expectations.

Similar discussions gained pace in 2023, when social media trends like as "high-value partners" and "know your worth" dominated online discourse, with influencers encouraging people to set personal standards in relationships.

“Fun fact, girls like me don’t appear twice in your life. Once I come and you mess up, you can’t find another like me. If you’re lucky to have someone like me, hold me tight and do everything possible so I don’t leave,” she said.

“We are not many—na only one God create like me. If I leave, I’m sorry for you because you won’t get someone like me again. Face card, beauty, everything intact. If you have a fine girl like me, you better hold her well because we are rare,” she added.

The message has sparked discussions online, with individuals discussing whether such expressions foster good self-esteem or unreasonable expectations in modern relationships.

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