A Nigerian man has set social media buzzing after dropping some very blunt relationship advice for young women on X (formerly Twitter).
In the viral post, he warned ladies in their mid-20s against treating relationships as casual for too long, insisting that clarity and intention should kick in from 25.
💬 His main argument?
According to him, delaying commitment until the late 20s or early 30s can shrink options and create pressure. He claimed some men even exploit women who feel rushed to settle down later.
Although many women say marriage isn’t a priority, he argued that deep down, most still want it.
💼 Career vs Love? He says you can have both
The writer encouraged women to chase education, careers, and businesses — but not at the expense of genuine relationships.
His advice: If you meet a serious, promising partner, don’t keep postponing commitment forever.
🍳 The cooking comment that triggered reactions
One of the hottest takes was his criticism of the phrase: “I won’t cook for a man until marriage.”
He claimed many serious men see that stance as a red flag, stressing that while women shouldn’t overdo the “girlfriend duties,” they also shouldn’t appear unwelcoming.
❤️ Respect > ‘I love you’
According to him, respect is a man’s real love language. Saying “I love you” means little without support, respect, and appreciation.
He urged women to value men who are responsible, hardworking, and future-driven.
🙏 Final note: Love God above all.
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