Nigeria's Hard Times: Let Kindness Become Our New Survival Strategy

By Yekini Lukmon, YKL 
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Nigeria is going through a difficult period. Across the country, the rising cost of living, inflation, unemployment and declining purchasing power are placing enormous pressure on individuals and families. For many Nigerians, the struggle is not merely about meeting financial obligations; it is also about coping with the emotional and psychological burden that comes with economic hardship.

At a time like this, kindness should not be regarded as a luxury. It should become a shared social responsibility.

Being kind to one another can help reduce the daily stress and emotional burdens that many people carry. A simple act of care may make a significant difference to a neighbour, friend, colleague or even a stranger. Sharing a portion of one's meal, giving out food items to a vulnerable family, assisting someone with transportation or simply offering encouraging words can bring relief to someone going through a difficult moment.

While Nigerians continue to demand that governments at all levels take meaningful steps to stabilise the economy, citizens also have a responsibility to make life more bearable for one another. The wealthy and relatively comfortable members of society should not wait for government intervention before contributing to the wellbeing of their communities. Every individual and organisation has a role to play.

Kindness is also reflected in the way we speak to people. Nigerians should be more mindful of how they treat others, particularly in public places. We meet people every day whose personal struggles we know nothing about. A harsh word can deepen someone's distress, while a gentle word can provide encouragement. We should therefore choose to encourage rather than humiliate, support rather than ridicule, and show understanding rather than hastily judge others.

We should also make time for the people around us. Call an elderly family member and ask how they are doing. Check on friends, colleagues and neighbours. Social media provides an opportunity to reach people, but it should be used responsibly. Rather than using social platforms to mock those who are struggling or flaunt material success at the expense of others, we should use them to spread hope, encouragement and useful information.

Knowing that someone cares can make a difficult situation easier to endure. The reality is that almost everyone is carrying one economic burden or another.

Our responsibility to one another, however, goes beyond individual acts of kindness. We must build stronger communities by promoting unity irrespective of ethnicity, religion or political affiliation. We should learn to respect divergent opinions and correct one another's mistakes with patience, humility and love.

Politics, religion and ethnic differences should not be allowed to destroy the bonds that hold our communities together. Communities survive difficult periods better when people look out for one another.

Kindness must also be reflected in our economic activities. Business owners, traders and service providers have a responsibility to charge fair and reasonable prices. While businesses must remain profitable, the prevailing economic hardship should not become an excuse for deliberate exploitation.

When food, transportation, healthcare, rent and other basic necessities are subjected to unjustifiable price increases simply because sellers want to maximise profit, the consequences extend beyond individual consumers. The seller eventually becomes a buyer and is confronted by the same rising prices. This creates a vicious cycle that increases economic pressure across society.

Fair pricing, therefore, is another form of social responsibility. Small and medium-sized businesses operating within communities should consider the welfare of the people around them. Profit should not come at the expense of the survival and dignity of others.

Nigeria also needs to confront the growing culture of fraud and exploitation. Despite the economic difficulties confronting millions of citizens, some people continue to engage in scams, fraudulent transactions and other dishonest practices, sometimes describing such behaviour as "smartness." It is not smartness. It is a dangerous erosion of social trust.

A society cannot prosper when people constantly suspect one another. Honest business dealings, trustworthy relationships and responsible daily interactions are essential ingredients for economic growth and social stability.

The same principle applies to how we display wealth. There is nothing wrong with success or celebrating one's achievements. However, sensitivity matters. Public displays of excessive wealth at a time when many people are struggling to afford basic necessities can sometimes deepen feelings of frustration and exclusion. Success should inspire others, not unnecessarily humiliate those who are still struggling to find their footing.

Nigeria belongs to all of us. The responsibility to make the country better cannot be left entirely to government. Government must continue to address inflation, unemployment, insecurity, infrastructure deficits and other structural challenges, but citizens must complement these efforts through responsible behaviour and social solidarity.

Our patriotism should not be measured only by the national flag we display, the political party we support or the slogans we chant. It should also be measured by what we contribute to improving the lives of people around us, particularly the vulnerable and less privileged.

At this critical moment, Nigerians need one another more than ever. Let us be patient with one another. Let us speak with kindness, conduct business honestly, charge fairly, respect differences and offer assistance whenever we can.

We may not be able to solve every economic problem confronting Nigeria individually, but each of us can make another person's burden a little lighter.

Nigeria will become a better place when compassion becomes part of our national character.

Now is the time for Nigerians to stand together — irrespective of tribe, religion, political affiliation or social status — and build a country where we do not merely survive difficult times, but help one another through them.

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