Tonto Dikeh, a Nollywood actress-turned-evangelist, has sparked debate online after revealing her thoughts on wooing among Christian singles.
Tonto warned Christian men not to use spiritual statements as a replacement for true effort when courting a lady for marriage in a video shared on her social media page.
According to her, some Christian men take a "low-effort" attitude to relationships, saying things like, "God told me you are my wife," rather than purposefully getting to know the individual and developing a good relationship.
She encouraged Christian men to avoid what she considers shortcuts in courtship and instead devote more time, sincerity, and effort to creating lasting connections.
“This is a very funny topic, but it is one that we actually need to discuss. So, if you are a brother in the Lord, come forward; this is for you
Why do church brothers think church sisters don’t require gifts? What about this low-effort thing you put into wooing or pursuing a woman? Church brothers would say, ‘God sent me to you,’ and blah, blah. God can send you, but using spiritual language to mask emotional laziness is a distortion of God’s character. Saying, ‘God told me you are my wife,’ is not an excuse to bypass intentionality and practical effort,” she said.
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