An American couple, James Wilson and Kaylee Wilson, have revealed how a recent U.S. policy restricting internationally adopted persons from entering the country has left them stranded in Nigeria, despite completing a long and rigorous adoption process.
Speaking with journalist Temitope Adetunji, the couple said their decision to remain in Nigeria, far from home comforts, was driven by one priority: staying united with their children.
“Being together with our children matters more than comfort,” James Wilson said.
Why Nigeria?
According to the couple, their journey to Nigeria was not driven by tourism or convenience, but by faith and family.
They explained that they did not choose Nigeria because of geography, but because two of their children were here.
“We believe God leads us where we are meant to be. Each time we were led here, it was to bring a child into our family,” they said.
The couple stressed that they are open to adopting from anywhere — Nigeria, Ghana, or beyond — as long as it means giving children in need a stable, loving home.
A Gruelling Adoption Process
Describing adoption as emotionally and administratively demanding, the Wilsons said the process is difficult even within the United States, and far more complex internationally.
Following global policy shifts after 2020, governments became stricter, particularly to ensure that:
• Children are truly orphans
• No biological relatives were wrongly separated
• Adoptions meet international legal and ethical standards
The couple disclosed that they underwent extensive investigations by both Nigerian and U.S. authorities.
Their assessments covered:
• Financial stability
• Mental and emotional health
• Marriage and family structure
• Home safety and long-term care plans
They were also screened and cleared by the Federal Bureau of Investigation, Department of Homeland Security, and U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services before being allowed to travel.
Despite completing these steps, the couple say new U.S. entry restrictions have left them unable to return home with their adopted children — forcing them to remain in Nigeria indefinitely.
Their story has reignited conversations around international adoption policies, family unity, and the human cost of immigration reforms.
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