The Deeper Christian Life Ministry has eased some of its long-standing marriage guidelines, with its leader, Pastor William Kumuyi, approving home visits during courtship.
Kumuyi made the announcement during the 2025 Global Family and Marriage Conference, describing the previous restrictions as administrative policies rather than biblical injunctions.
For decades, members of the church had been restricted from visiting their intended partners at home before marriage, a practice many believed helped couples avoid temptation. But the Deeper Life founder acknowledged that such measures had also left women at a disadvantage in understanding the family background and environment of their suitors.
“The man may appear neutral, always saying everything is fine, giving no clue whether positive or negative,” Kumuyi explained. “But when you see his home, his parents, his relatives, and how they interact with you, it gives a clearer picture. Why not? If not, follow them home.”
He further clarified that the six-month courtship period, often seen as sacrosanct in the church, was never a biblical command but a guide meant to safeguard purity.
Kumuyi assured members that the new flexibility would not compromise the church’s values, expressing confidence in their spiritual maturity to avoid visiting at odd hours or engaging in inappropriate conduct.
The announcement marks a significant shift for Deeper Life, a church widely known for its conservative stance on Christian living, particularly regarding marriage and family life.
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