A Nigerian woman has sparked debate online after advising women to conceal certain details about their past relationships from men who intend to marry them.
In a video shared on X (formerly Twitter), the woman cautioned women against telling prospective husbands that they had previously sl3pt with married men.
She argued that revealing such information could potentially give a man an excuse to justify infidelity in the marriage.
“Do not ever tell a man that wants to marry you that you did hook up or agree that you have ever sl3pt with a married man. No. Don’t do that, you’re giving him a pass to cheating.
“Do not ever tell a man that wants to marry you the number of men you have been with. If you’re in your early twenties, tell him one. If you’re in your late twenties, two boyfriends. Even if you have been with fifty, it’s two.”
She advises women against revealing ab0rtion history
The woman also advised women not to disclose the number of ab0rtions they may have had, claiming that such information could later be used against them by their partners.
She further cautioned women against telling prospective husbands about previous experiences of abu$e, arguing that some men could use such information to minimise their own abus$ve behaviour.
“If you were b@ttered and you tell a man, on a good day, he will sl@p you and unconsciously tell himself, ‘Well, at least I didn’t do as much as your ex did,’” she added.
Her comments have generated mixed reactions online, with the debate centring on honesty, privacy, trust and whether people entering marriage should disclose sensitive details about their past.
While some may view her advice as a way of protecting oneself from potential judgement or manipulation, others argue that deliberately providing false information about significant aspects of one's past could undermine trust in a marriage.
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