Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa has stirred conversations online after sharing her views on infidelity and gender dynamics.
Speaking during a recent episode of her Toke Moments podcast, Makinwa argued that women cheat more than men but tend to be more discreet about it.
According to her, chëãting is often easier for women compared to men, who usually have to invest more time, money, and effort to maintain extramarital relationships.
She explained that this perspective has reshaped her personal stance on infidelity, stating that cheating is no longer an automatic dealbreaker for her.
Makinwa noted that acknowledging women’s capacity to cheat challenges the common narrative that infidelity is predominantly a male issue.
Her words …
“Chëãting is not a dealbreaker for me but it comes with a caveat. When I say it some people think that I am encouraging cheating. No. As I grow older, I realised that it is not just men who can cheat. Why are we making these men feel so special as if it is only them?
“Do you know how easy it is for a woman to chëat? It is even easier for us. But men will spend money, efforts and time to chëat.
“But we, we are the ones receiving. It is easier for women to chëat. You know, we have work boyfriend. A woman not chëãting is not because she cannot chëat, it is probably because she has one thing you lack, it is strength.
“Women chëat more, but they know how to hide it.”
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